Babbling Penxels’ Daily Gripes
If there is a solution to a problem, then the “problem” is not a problem in the first place

Jun
20

My fellow babes in the office often scream at me: ‘how do you take the stress? you look sooooo relaxed!’.

I’d like to think that I’m a stress-free person. But lo and behold, I am afterall a humble, ordinary homosapien like everyone else. Immune to stress I am not. Stress is when you stare at it straight in the eye, and it gives you this mean, cheeky grin, as it revels in the thought of the mountain-high amount of work you have for the next 5 days, daring you to take it head on.

Oh yes I dare. So like I mentioned before many countless posts before, take the bull by the horns. Then stress will run away like a defeated dog with its tail between its legs.

Jun
09

《孩子,快抓紧妈妈的手》(Child, hurry! Seize mother’s hand)

孩子 (Child)
快 (Hurry)
抓紧妈妈的手 (Seize mother’s hand)
去天堂的路 (The road to heaven)
太黑了 (is very dark)
妈妈怕你 (Mother is afraid you)
碰了头 (hit your head)
快 (Hurry)
抓紧妈妈的手 (Seize mother’s hand)
让妈妈陪你走 (Let mother accompany you)

妈妈 (Mother)
怕 (Afraid)
天堂的路 (The road to heaven)
太黑 (is very dark)
我看不见你的手 (I can’t see your hand)
自从 (Since)
倒塌的墙 (the collapsed wall)
把阳光夺走 (stole away the sunlight)
我再也看不见 (I can never see)
你柔情的眸 (your loving expression)

孩子 (Child)
你走吧 (Go on your way)
前面的路 (The road ahead)
再也没有忧愁 (is free of unhappiness)
没有读不完的课本 (no more neverending textbooks to read)
和爸爸的拳头 (or father’s fist)
你要记住 (But remember)
我和爸爸的摸样 (Mother’s and father’s appearance)
来生还要一起走 (So we may walk together again in the next life)

妈妈 (Mother)
别担忧 (Don’t worry)
天堂的路有些挤 (Although the road to heaven is a little crowded)
有很多同学朋友 (there are many classmates and friends)
我们说 (We say)
不哭 (Don’t cry)
哪一个人的妈妈都是我们的妈妈 (Every mother, is our mother)
哪一个孩子都是妈妈的孩子 (Every child, is mother’s child)
没有我的日子 (The days without me)
你把爱给活的孩子吧 (Give your love to those children who are alive)

妈妈 (Mother)
你别哭 (Don’t cry)
泪光照亮不了 (Tears won’t light up)
我们的路 (our path)
让我们自己 (Let us)
慢慢的走 (Walk slowly)
妈妈 (Mother)
我会记住你和爸爸的模样 (I will remember you and father)
记住我们的约定 (Remember our promise)
来生一起走 (Let’s walk together again in the next life)

Jun
01

What would you do if an earthquake struck Singapore this moment? With so many high rise buildings, where will we run to? Where can we hide? It wouldn’t be like feeling the aftershocks of an earthquake in a neighbouring country, for we would have time to run, or even take the lift down to the ground floor. We can only count our lucky stars that our little island is not located in any earthquake area, and is safe from most natural disasters.

Everyday, I read reports on the Szechuan earthquake, and how now finally, the rescuers have finally managed to reach the most remote mountainous areas to reach trapped victims. Why am I so concerned about an event and people in an area I’ve never been to, and only heard of? Well, because by a twist of fate, I could have been holidaying somewhere in Szechuan, instead of Hangzhou-Suzhou-Shanghai. I could have been stuck there, I could have been one of the victims, waiting for rescue, or just desperately finding a way out and reach my family and friends.

But more than that, it’s because I’m a Chinese. And this earthquake has very vividly demonstrated that, even though the earthquake happened in an area most of us are not familiar with, even though the earthquake has shattered many lives, it has not shattered the Chinese spirit and unity. Even till today, fund raising efforts big and small are happening all over the world, wherever there are Chinese. The fund raising isn’t meant for immediate rescue efforts or emergency relief needs. The fund raising is meant to rebuild the lives - physically and psychologically - of those in Szechuan. For it may have taken minutes for the 7.8 earthquake to shatter the lives of thousands of people, it will take at least 7 years to rebuild their lives, homes, schools and hospitals.

This day, on China’s Children’s Day, my thoughts go out to the young victims of this disaster, especially the orphans and those who have lost an arm or leg. Right now, what they need is support, help to get them over this emotionally and psychologically, for they are young, and may not know how to express themselves. So the funds are also equally important to help them get back to life as quickly as possible, and to ensure that they continue to get an education and proper healthcare, lest they be forgotten and get taken advantage of by unscrupulous characters.

So as you are sitting in the comfort of your study room, or your living room, in front of your PC/laptop, reading this, or reading the latest death toll of the earthquake, what are you doing to extend a helping hand? More than ever, the phrase ‘it’s the thought that counts’ rings true.

My message to Szechuan survivors - be strong and survive on. I will support you. Though I can’t donate tens of thousands of dollars, I hope my contributions will help, in its little way, in rebuilding your lives. Jia you!

May
30

Ahhh.. today I cleared my outstanding off-in-lieu from too many wine dinners. Went for a nice 1-hour foot reflexology and back massage at Holland Village, at a place called Serenity Cove, which cost $40. Then it was back home exercise to my culinary skills. This time, I bought 100g of minced pork, and 5 grey prawns, minced them together, and made pork & prawn balls. Then I threw them together into a pot of water, with some green ‘di huang miao’ vegetables, and that was my dinner. Yum yum….

Pork & prawn balls with vegetable soup

May
28

Heaven up above, SuHang down on earth. This is the literal translation of a phrase passed down through centuries in China, and it refers to Hangzhou and Suzhou. Recently, I took a tour to Hangzhou, Suzhou and Shanghai and quite enjoyed myself. I visited the famous Xihu (West Lake) and Mei Jia Zhuang in Hangzhou, Wu Zhen, as well as Han Shan Si and Suzhou Museum in Suzhou. In Shanghai, which I’ve been to previously, the tour, as usual, visited Xin Tian Di, Sheng Huang Miao and Pudong.

This trip made me realise, if you want to holiday and do not want to think of where to go and eat, then joining a tour is great. You can just stop thinking, and let the tour leader lead you along the way. The only disadvantages of a tour are the early mornings, and the need to wait for others. Luckily, the people on my tour were quite nice, and all kept largely to the schedule. Otherwise, I think I’ll return more stressed and frustrated!

It was just a quick 4 day trip, but I definitely enjoyed myself not having to think, just follow, as you can see from the photos.

Famous Hangzhou dish - Dong Po Pork Suzhou Ping Dan